This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free.
I was looking for one of my enslaved ancestors named William Graham when I found an 1860 estate file on Familysearch.com for Judge William A. Graham with a list of slaves to be divided between his heirs. I hoped my great grandfather was one of those named. I decided to go through the list of 60 plus and see what I could find out using online records. I still don’t know if the William on the list is mine or not, but it has been interesting to find out what happened to those listed after they were freed in 1865.
Page 2 of the estate file of Judge William Graham. Kate’s name appears on the line with the dot. Click to enlarge.
Kate appears on page two of the 1860 estate file of Judge William A. Graham. She was three years old and valued at $300. Kate was not in a family grouping. She was among a group of children that appeared to be without parents. Kate was placed in lot 4 along with 16 year old Emily and child, six year old Jane and 18 year old John. They were to go to William A. Graham of Autauga County, Alabama. Out of that group I have only been able to trace John, who I wrote about at Betsy & John Graham.I was unable to find Kate in the 1870 census or beyond.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free. I was looking for one of my enslaved ancestors named William Graham when I found an 1860 estate file for Judge William A. Graham with a list of slaves to be divided between his heirs. I hoped my great grandfather was one of those named. I decided to go through the list of 60 plus and see what I could find out using online records. I still don’t know if the William on the list is mine or not, but it has been interesting to find out what happened to those listed after they were freed in 1865.
Estate file of Judge William A. Grahams. Page 1 of several pages of the enslaved with names, ages and values. 1860. Click to enlarge.
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I wrote a bit about Emanuel Graham and several generations of his descendants here. Today I am going to take a closer look at Emanuel’s son James. James Graham was born into slavery in 1848, probably on Judge William A. Graham’s plantation. His parents were Emanuel and Elsie Graham. In the 1860 estate file, James appears with his family group as a six year old valued at $700. James, his parents and his two year old sister Clara were in Lot 2, which was to go to to the Judge’s daughter Ellen Graham Strain in Shelby County, Alabama. James older siblings were in separate lots. Ten year old Betsy was in Lot 6 to go to Alfred Graham in Rusk, Texas. Eleven year old Harris was in Lot 9 to go with Sarah Graham Sims in Macon County, Alabama. Thirteen year old Charles was in Lot 7 to go with Lenora Graham in Prattville, Autauga County, Alabama. The settling of the estate seemed to drag on for several years and I am not sure if they were separated.
In 1870 Harris, 22; Betsy, 20; James, 16 and Clara, 12 were all living with their parents in Prattville. Clara was the only one attending school. Emanuel was a farmer with $100 worth of personal estate. Elsie was keeping house. Harris and James worked as farm labor on the family farm. Betsy was a domestic servant. Nobody could read or write.
James married Cynthia Gibbons in 1877. They were both about 23. In 1880 they were working for the Northington family. They had two children, two year old Mary and one year old Christopher.
By 1900 they owned their own farm free of mortgage. James was farming. Cynthia had given birth to ten children and all were still living, nine in the family home. Their ages ranged 22 down to four year old Samuel. Nobody had attended school that year. Viola and Elsie were able to read. Manuel and Albert were laborers on the home farm. Cynthia’s brother Robert owned and farmed the land next to them.
In 1910 Five of James and Cynthia’s sons were living at home and working on the farm. They were all literate. One of the children had died. James does not appear in any other records after 1910.
In 1920 Cynthia and the youngest son, Samuel were working the home farm. Son Manuel and his family owned land and were farming next door. Son Haywood and his family rented and farmed next to Manuel.
Samuel died in 1926. His mother Cynthia does not appear in any more records. I was unable to find death records for James or Cynthia Graham. Of the children that I was able to follow, all remained in Autauga farming except for Haywood who moved with his family to Youngstown Ohio where he worked as a laborer until he died in 1979.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free. Sometimes I also write about their descendants who were born after slavery.
In 1880 Nelson Graham and his family lived a few houses from Ed Patterson and his family in the Peacock Track in Montgomery, Alabama. Both households held a couple and five children. In Nelson and Caroline’s house only their 21 year old Fannie still lived at home. There were also four grandchildren – thirteen year old Willie Graham, six year old Duncan Wilkerson, five year old Sarah Powell and three year old Irene Holtzclaw. Nelson worked as a drayman. Fannie was a house servant. The two older grandchildren were in school and the two little ones were at home. Caroline did not work outside of the house. Neither of the parents were literate but the younger ones were.
At the Patterson home in 1880, Ed was a carpenter, his wife Anna kept house. She was listed as deaf. Their children were young, nine year old Katie, six year old Anna, five year old Mary E., three year old Eddie and one year old Mary A.V.G.. The parents were literate. The two older children were in school.
Twenty years have passed and by 1900 Nelson Graham and his family have disappeared from the records. The Patterson family had moved to Clay Street where they owned their house free and clear. The young children from 1880 were now grown and out of the house. Their twenty year old daughter Gertrude and sixteen year old son Neamiah attended school. Twenty two year old Irene Holtzclaw was also a member of the Patterson household and was identified as Patterson’s adopted daughter. Ed and Anna’s daughter Mary Ella had married William H. Holtzclaw. Mary Ella and William were both graduates of Tuskegee Institute in Tuskegee, Alabama.
On October 10, 1900 Irene Holtzclaw married Samuel Dupree, a widower. Their daughter Ethel Mae Dupree was born the following year. Samuel worked as a laborer in the early years and ended up as a grocer. I found Samuel in a number of Montgomery city directories but was unable to find the family in the 1910 census. Their address was listed as 343 Jeff Davis Ave. with the store located at 216 S. Hold. After combing the second ward in which those streets are located, I found the house at 343 Jeff Davis Ave. Instead of Sam and Irene and baby Ethel Mae, I found Jim Dupree, Sam’s father living there with his family. No sign of Irene and her family. I did stumble across others that I knew as I went page by page through the three enumeration districts located in the 2nd ward, I saw Ed Patterson, now a widower but still worked as a carpenter. His son Neamiah was living with his brother’s family. I saw my 2X great aunt Beulah Allen Pope and her family. But no Irene Holtzclaw Dupree.
In 1911 Samuel and Irene’s daughter Margaret was born. I cannot find a death record for Irene, but in 1915 Samuel then 45, married Ella Albritton age 21. In the 1920 census he was described as a retail merchant. Everybody in the house was literate. Nineteen year old Ethel and nine year old Margaret both attended school. The family owned their home free of mortgage. A few blocks away, at 235 Jeff Davis lived my Aunt Beulah and her family.
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In 1922 Samuel Dupree died. He was 53 years old. In 1927 daughter Ethel died at age 26. In 1930 daughter Margaret, now 19, was living with her stepmother Ella, in the house on Jeff Davis. They have a border who is a brakeman on the railroad. Ella was a waitress at a cafe. Margaret was in school. They didn’t own a radio. I lost track of Margaret but Ella stayed in the old home and worked as a cook through the 1940s and into the 1950s, even starting her own cafe. She died in 1958 at 63 years old.
Irene Holtzclaw, led me a merry chase through the records as I traced her life. Some things are still a mystery – who were her parents? When and of what did she die? Did she have more children in the years I lost her? I enjoy searching in Montgomery because I always run across relatives and other people I know.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free and their descendants.
Today I will write about Henderson Graham of Alabama. This is another case of the name appearing in the estate file of William A. Graham of Autauga County and then turning up with his family in 1870 in Elmore County. Elmore County was created from parts of several other counties, including Autauga. I need to look and see who the Graham slave holders were in that area. William A. Graham and his children can’t have been the only Graham slave holders in the area. Or maybe they were. At any rate, here is the story of Henderson Graham as pieced together from records.
Henderson appears in the 1860 estate file as a seventeen year old young man given a value of $700.00. He was born about 1843. In 1870 the only Henderson Graham in the area is found living with his family in Elmore County. The family includes Eli Graham, 48; Hester Graham, 47; Henderson, 15 and 12 year old Eli. Eli senior was a farmer. Hester was keeping house. Living next door were John and Anna Graham and their two children Otis and Ester. John was also a farmer.
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On October 23, 1873 Henderson married Caroline Duncan in Elmore County. When I looked at the marriage license, I noticed that Griffin and Texas Jackson were the couple above them. Griffin was Prissa Jackson’s son. Both couples were married by George Washington.
In 1880 Henderson was farming. He rented the land for shares, that is he had to give part of his crop in payment. His father and brother Eli were also farming this way. Henderson worked 50 acres. He had $90 worth of livestock. The estimated value of everything produced on the farm in 1879 was valued at $400. He had one milch cow and one other cattle; six swine; ten barnyard fowl who produced 20 dozen eggs in 1879. He planted 18 acres of Indian Corn which produced 180 bushels and 36 acres of cotton which produced six bales. He grew 15 bushels of sweet potatoes on a quarter acre.
Henderson and Caroline had two small children, a daughter Alice three years old and a son Judge one. His niece Otis lived with them. She was eleven and attending school. Hester Duncan, Caroline’s fourteen year old sister lived with them and worked on the farm, as did Mary Long. Henderson did not live far from his father and his siblings. His dwelling was #279 on the 1880 census and his father was #311. None of them were literate.
Between 1880 and 1900 three more sons were born, Eli in 1885; Butler in 1887 and Clinton in 1889. Caroline died sometime after the birth of Clinton. In 1899 Henderson married Patsey, who had one daughter, Minnie King. In 1900 Henderson was farming. He owned his farm but it was mortgaged. His four sons and step-daughter, ages 22 to 13 were living on the farm. Only the oldest, Judge, was able to read and write. They were all listed as farm labor and none were in school. Patsey had birthed five children and four were still alive.
Henderson’s daughter Alice, her husband William and their three year old daughter Rosa lived next door. They had been married three years. Alice had birthed two children and one was alive. William was farming on his own mortgaged farm. He was illiterate while Alice was able to read and write. Nine year old Alfried Owens lived with them and is listed as ‘nurse’.
In the 1910 Henderson is listed as 62 years old. Every year he gets closer to that birth year in the estate file. He and Patsey had been married nine years. It says this is his 3rd marriage and her 4th. I take this with a grain of salt as I have found no other marriages. He now owns his farm free and clear (Yay!) His son Clinton lives with them and works on the farm. Two step-grandchildren, Patsey and Peter Duncan live with them. Fourteen year old Patsey attended school while eleven year old Peter did not. Both Clinton and Patsey are literate. Henderson’s son Eli rents a far down the road and farms with his wife Mary.
Patsey died in Montgomery in 1915. Henderson died on January 4, 1925 in Elmore County, Alabama. He was buried in Goodship Cemetery. He was 82 years old and his birth year is given as 1843, which finally gets us back to the birth year in the 1860 estate file.
I saw a lot of tangents to go off on while researching Henderson and I plan to come back to this family later in the month. I especially enjoyed finding the connection with an extended family member of mine in the marriage record book. I am glad he was able to own his farm free and clear.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free. Sometimes I also write about the descendants of slaves who were born free. Today I will write about Georgia and Mitchell Graham of Alabama.
I started by searching for the Georgia listed among the enslaved in the estate file of Judge William A. Graham. In 1860 she was 8 years old and valued at $700. I found a Georgia in 1870 living with her mother Millie Washington and Millie’s husband George and seven year old George, in Elmore, Elmore County, Alabama, ten miles from the Judge’s plantation in Prattville. There was a Millie listed in the estate file. In the file she was “not valued” and no age or monetary value was given. Millie Washington found in 1870 was 58, which would have made her only about 48 in 1860. I wasn’t sure if these were the people from the Graham plantation, but I followed them anyway because her name started with “G” and because their story was so varied and interesting.
Mitchell Graham and Georgia Washington were married in Elmore County on January 8, 1876. Four years later we find them with three small children. Georgia’s widowed mother lived with them. They were farming their own land. Fifteen acres were improved and 25 acres were wooded. The value of his farm, including land, implements and animals, was $150. He had $3 worth of farm implements and $75 worth of livestock. The value of all farm products (sold, consumed and on hand) for 1879 was $125. He had one working ox, no milch cow, 1 swine and 4 barnyard fowl. Mitchell planted four acres of Indian corn which yielded 40 bushels. He planted 15 acres of cotton and got two bales.
By 1897 the family had left the farm and moved 108 miles north to the city of Birmingham, Alabama. They rented their home. In 1900 Mitchell, 46, was working as a laborer in a rock quarry, as did one of his sons. Georgie was 44 had birthed 12 children. Eight were living. Seven of the children, from age two to age 22 were living at home. They had been married 24 years. Everybody in the household was literate. Georgia didn’t work outside the home. The oldest son worked as farm labor. The oldest daughter worked as a cook. The fifteen year old son was an errand boy and the next two children were in school. The baby was two.
Ten years later Georgia, 49, and Mitchell, 50, owned their home, although it did have a mortage. Mitchell and one of his sons worked as a builder at a pipe shop and had been out of work for 16 weeks. Three of the children were still home, including 12 year old Stella who attended school. Two grandchilden, ages six and three, lived with them and they had a border. Georgia worked as a laundress from home and had not been out of work at all. One of the sons and the border were coal miners and had not been out of work.
In 1917 and 1925 Mitchell appears in the City Directory as an Evangelist and a minister. I could not find them in the 1920 census. Mitchell died on October 29, 1925. He was 73. Georgia died on January 15, 1928. She was 76. I found it inspiring that they were so open to change. And I loved finding so much information about them.
Special note to my husband who is my proof reader: Take the age changes from census to census with a grain of salt.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free. Sometimes I also write about the descendants of slaves who were born free. Today I will write about Frazer Lane, who was mentioned in my A post about Allen Lane.
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“…It is my will that my four Negroes be free at my death, namely Perry, Allen, Frazer, and Mariah, and that my sons Henry S. Lane and Higgins Lane by my Executors to execute this my will. In witness thereof I hereunto set my name this 22nd day of July 1841.“
James H. Lane
“I also will that Samuel Stone and Newton Reid be my Executors in connexion with Henry S. Lane and Higgins Lane as aforesaid. In testimony whereof I hereunto set my hand this 28th September 1846. I also do will to Perry (note: from census records I believe this name should be Jerry) and to Allen and to Frazer their Horses as known by the name of their horses at present.“
James H. Lane, the slave owner who wrote the above Will, was born in Virginia and moved to Kentucky where he farmed. He outlived 2 wives and left a third a widow when he died in 1846. He had 8 children and 4 slaves.
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Frazer was born into slavery in 1808. Slaves were not enumerated by name in censuses. In the 1810 through 1840 census no one in the household was enumerated by name except the head of household. Looking at those censuses we find that James Hardage Lane had 4 slaves.
In 1850 Frazer was enumerated by name along with all the other free people, including 165 other black people, in Montgomery, Kentucky. He was 42 years old and shared a house with Allen and Jerry. They were laborers, probably on nearby farms.
In 1860 Frazer, age 53, owned $600 worth of real estate and had personal estate worth $285. He was farming and married to Nellie, who was 50 years old.
In 1870 Frazer was 65 and farming. There is no value for real estate but he had $308 personal estate. Nellie was 60 with no occupation given. Also sharing the house was Jerry, 76, listed as a laborer. And 23 year old Mary Lane. All are listed as unable to read or write and born in Kentucky. There were still no relationships listed so I can speculate that Mary was his daughter, but I don’t know. Jerry and Frazer were listed as black while Nellie and Mary were listed as mulatto.
The 1880 census was the last I found for Frazer and Nellie Lane. They were now 72 and 71. They are in Montgomery county, Mt. Sterling post office. Frazer is still farming. Nellie is keeping house. Living with them is ten year old Horace Borne with occupation of houseboy. Frazer and Horace are listed as born in Kentucky while Nellie and her parents are listed as born in Virginia. I wonder if this was the first time she actually spoke to the enumerator. Nobody could read or write.
You will notice that there is not an even ten year age gain between the ten year censuses. That could be because different people gave information to the enumerator. In this case the difference is actually minimal. Sometimes people gain 20 years or only two years during that ten year period.
What I wish I could have found – If Mary was their daughter and what happened to her. If Horace was a relative and what happened to him. When they died and of what. What happened to the farmland he owned in 1860.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I am writing about people who were born into slavery and lived to be free. Sometimes I also write about the descendants of slaves who were born free.
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Ellen Logan was born into slavery about 1835 in Louisville, Kentucky. She cooked for the Peaslee family both during slavery and after. Ellen had an independent streak and stood up for herself even during slavery. In Chapter 12 of the book “Slightly Historical” written by Peaslee family member Alice Norcross Cane, Ellen was described this way,
“Ellen was the cook. She was argumentative and could answer her mistress’s reproaches glibly. These reproaches were mainly regarding Ellen getting in a family way no matter what measures were taken to protect her.”
In 1870, Ellen continued to live in the Peaslee household. Her five children also lived there, Cary Logan 15, was a servant; Libbie Logan 6, Frank Logan 4 and one month old Ellen Logan. Neither Ellen or Cary could read or write.
Death record for Ellen Logan (underlined) Columns from L to R are: Death date, name, sex, color, marital status, age, cause of death, length of illness, doctor, day of death, where,address, date of burial, cemetery name. Click to enlarge
Just three years later, in 1873 Ellen Logan died in childbirth. She was ill for 9 days before she died on August 12. She was listed as married. Her address was on 5th near Chestnut, which was the Peaslee house. Ellen was 38 years old. On the page before the one on which Ellen Logan’s death appeared, there is an entry for a premature baby girl with only the name “Ellen”. The address is the same as Ellen Logan’s. The baby was born nine days before Ellen died and lived one day.
Ellen was buried in Eastern Cemetery on the 13th of August. Eastern Cemetery is one of the oldest in Louisville. It was one of the first to allow black and white to be buried in the same cemetery.
“Originally owned by Fourth Street Methodist Church (now known as Trinity Temple United Methodist Church), it was one of the first cemeteries to bury Blacks and Whites on the same property. The grounds are the final resting place for individuals from all walks of life. Slaves, Odd Fellows, Free Masons, Louisville’s famous Black ministers, Union and Confederate veterans, and Servicemen and women from wars all the way up to Vietnam are all interred at Eastern.” Eastern was neglected for many years and became overgrown with gravestones damaged and falling down. There is a group now dedicated to putting it in order. You can read more about it and see recent photographs at this link History of Eastern Cemetery.
Ellen Logan’s oldest daughter Cary worked as a servant and died in 1894. Her daughter Libbie grew up, worked and got married and lived into her 80s. The little boy Frank followed the Northern troops when they left town and was never heard from again. This is according to the book quoted above. I have not found the first baby Ellen from the 1870 census living with either of her older sisters.
Resources used in writing this were: The 1870 Census and Kentucky Death Records from Ancestry.com. I would like to thank my friend Zann Carter for sharing the information from the book “Slightly Historical” by Alice Norcross Cane, that helped put meat on the bones of this story.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I will be writing about people who were born into slavery and were later free. In a few cases I will be writing about the descendants of enslaved people who were born free.
Emanuel Graham and his family are not related to me. I chose to highlight only one of his descendants for each generation. He had many, many more descendants.
Emanuel Graham was born into slavery about 1823. He and his family appear in Judge William A. Graham’s Estate Record in 1860. After freedom he continued to live and raise his family in Prattville, Alabama. He worked as a laborer. Emanuel never learned to read or write.
Emanuel’s son James Graham was born into slavery in 1848 in Alabama. He was a farmer and eventually owned his own farm. His children could read and write, although he never learned to.
James’ son Haywood Graham completed the eighth grade in Prattville, Alabama. He farmed on rented land until moving to Youngstown, Ohio with his wife and children between 1920 and 1930. He worked as a laborer at a coke plant and on road construction. He rented his house for $16.50 a month. His children attended high school. In 1942 he worked for the W.P.A. Haywood died in Dayton, Ohio in 1975.
Haywood’s son Morris Graham was born in 1920 in Prattville Alabama. He completed four years of high school and worked as a porter. He died in Youngstown Ohio in 2004.
I found this information using Census Records, Death Records and Directories.
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I will be writing about people who were born into slavery and were later free. In a few cases I will be writing about the descendants of enslaved people who were born free. I believe Prissa to be my 2x great grandmother. I am still working on proving it.
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Today I am going to write about census records I found for Prissa Jackson. Some of them are speculation because there are no names. Prissa Jackson was born into slavery about 1838 in Alabama on Lunceford Long’s plantation in what was then Autauga County Alabama and in 1866 became Elmore County. The first census we will look at will be Long’s 1840 Census. Nobody is named except for Lunceford Long. Page 2 of the 1840 Census for Langford Long shows the enslaved members of the household and tells in what industry and how many are employed. In this case 45 employed in Agriculture. Prissa would have been one of the enslaved 18 females under 10.
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The 1850 slave census for Lunsford Long starts on page 56 and continues on the next page with 21 more names. Prissa would have been one of the unnamed female slaves about age 12.
1860 Census for Lunceford Long’s household. He is listed as a planter with real estate worth $15,000 and personal property worth $240,000. In the same household, his son James is also listed as a planter with personal property worth $34,000. His widowed daughter, Tempe, also in the household is listed as a planter with real estate worth $6,000 and personal property worth $34,000. Personal property included the value of people you enslaved.
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In 1860 the number of slave cabins was added to the census. Long had 25 cabins for 160 people. Prissa would have been about 22 in 1860, give or take a few years.
Next there should be the 1866 Alabama State Census. It was the first census taken after the the Civil War. It included both the black and white population, seperatly. Unfortunately the census for Elmore County isn’t online. Maybe there was confusion as Elmore County was formed in 1866 from parts of Autauga, Coosa and Montgomery counties. The form for the 1866 census was similar to the 1840 census and only included the name of the head of household.
Prissa finally appears by name, with the rest of her household in the 1870 census. Click to enlarge. Unfortunately I have not found Prissa in any other censuses.
1870 Census including Prissa Jackson & her family. Her husband Joseph is a farmer. The younger children are in school.
1870 United States Federal Census
Name: Prissa Jackson
Age in 1870: 38
Birth Year: abt 1832
Birthplace: Alabama
Home in 1870: Township 17, Elmore, Alabama
Race: Black
Gender: Female
Post Office: Wetumpka
Name Age
Joseph Jackson 32
Prissa Jackson 38
Abba Jackson 24
Griffin Jackson 18
Frank Jackson 16
Mary Jackson 14
Lizza Jackson 12
Victor Jackson 10
Jams Jackson 9
Source CitationYear: 1870; Census Place: Township 17, Elmore, Alabama; Roll: M593_15; Page: 20B; Image: 231; Family History Library Film: 545514
This is my 4th year participating in the A-Z Challenge. I will be writing about people who were born into slavery and were later free. In a few cases I will be writing about the descendants of enslaved people who were born free. They are not related to me.
List of enslaved from the estate file of William A. Graham 1860. Click to enlarge.
Betsey Graham was born into slavery about 1848 in Alabama. In 1860 she is found on the list, shown above, of Judge William Archibald Graham’s slaves. Her husband John is also listed. The list appears to be arranged in family groups with parents and their children in descending age together. Betsey’s parents were Manuel and Elsie Graham. John’s mother was Rose.
Judge Graham’s plantation in Autauga County Alabama was a far cry from James Hardage Lane’s farm in Montgomery County Kentucky that I described yesterday. Judge Graham’s plantation consisted of 300 improved and 700 unimproved acres. There were 4 horses; 14 asses and mules; 300 swine; 10 milch cows; 4 working oxen and 56 other cattle. $800 worth of stock was slaughtered. In 1850 the livestock was valued at $4,400. $1,000 in 1850 money equals about $30,000 of buying power today.
Crops included 30 bushels of rye; 4,000 bushels of Indian corn; 50 bushels of oats; 100 bales of ginned cotton weighing 400 lbs per bale; 400 bushels of peas and beans; 10 bushels of Irish potatoes; 400 bushels of sweet potatoes; 300 lbs of butter and 30 tons of hay.
In the 1860 census Judge Graham was a planter with $29,000 worth of real estate and $64,000 worth of personal property (which included slaves). His 39 slaves lived in six cabins. When his estate was being valued there were 56 slaves on the plantation. He was married once and had nine children. All of them were literate.
The first census taken in Alabama after the Civil War was in 1866. John and Betsy were married with two children under the age of 10. In 1870 they had three children. Martha was the oldest at eight, Alice was five and Richard was three. John worked as a farm laborer and Betsy worked as a domestic servant. They were both illiterate and remained so for the rest of their lives.
In 1880 John was working as a laborer. Betsy was working as a servant. Richard, was the only child still at home. He was 16, attending school and working as a laborer. He was literate. I realize that Richard was three only ten years before in the 1870 census.That’s the way it goes. You have to take the ages in the census with a grain of salt. He was probably 13. His parents had gained 20 years between 1870 and 1880.
In 1900 John and Betsy were no longer living together. John, 55 lived with his mother, Rose in a rented house. He worked as a laborer. Betsy, also listed as 55 and lived with Eliza Graham Fay, one of Judge Graham’s daughters. Betsy was the cook. She had given birth to three children and two were living. John and Betsy were listed as widow and widower. It was not uncommon for separated couples to claim their spouse was dead.
In 1900, of the three children, I could only find the daughter Alice who had married to Brag Green, a laborer. They had been married ten years and had two children ages nine and seven who were both attending school. They rented their house.
In 1910 John was living alone and working as a laborer on a truck farm. John listed himself as single. Betsy was living with the Booth family as cook. I did not look to see if the Booth family was related to the Grahams. Betsy listed herself as a widow. Daughter Alice was a widow working as a nurse for a private family and living with her 17 year old daughter, Bula in a rented house. Bula was literate, Alice was not.
The last time I found any of the family was in the 1930 census. Betsy 81, was living with her daughter Alice 62 in a rented house worth $1. Neither was working. The only death record I found was for Alice. She died in 1932 in Hayneville, Lowndes County Alabama. She had been working as a cook for a private family and was a widow.
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I found the information for this post in various census records; death records; marriage records on Ancestry.com and Family Search. The Estate file of William Archibald Graham was on Family Search.